Words

Some words can give us strength,

Some words can sooth our pain,

Some words can make us laugh,

Some words can make us cry,

And some words can break our heart...

Words can be transmitted in different ways. 

You can write them down on a paper, on your blog or in your diary; or you can say it out loud (alone or with someone else). 

Some people use their words to hurt other people (intentionally or unintentionally).

Some people use their words to express themselves. (thoughts, fantasies, feelings, ... etc.)

And some people use their words to help or convince other people.  

There are times that I've hurt people ((un)intentionally) with my words during an argumentation. And there are times that I've helped myself and other people with my words. That's what makes us human. 

Some people can express themselves orally and some people rather express themselves verbally. As you can see, I'm a person who expresses her feelings, thoughts and experiences verbally. 

The essential of this chapter is that you have to pay attention to what you say or write when you want to transmit a message to your audience. Your message can appear offensive to some of them or maybe not. But it depends on it... ( ^_^' ) 

Like for example: I've got offended during a lesson in class because my teacher said something that had hurt me. He said that it was their fault (the girls) of getting assaulted because they wore revealing clothes. But I got assaulted at the age of 10 and I didn't wear revealing clothes at that time. (And I still don't wear revealing clothes right now) I wanted to defend myself, but I said nothing after that because I was still afraid to let everyone know that I was a victim of it. (I was a second grader in high school)

This example is an example that really happened to me in the past. It's an example that talks about someone who had hurt me unintentionally. He said this without knowing that I was a victim, too.

Building Up Your Self Confidence

We, the humans, are most likely going to be afraid to make mistakes most of the time. But the most succesful and confident people are the ones who aren't afraid to make mistakes.
We can be succesful in different domains such as: love, career, school, friendship, ... etc. But we won't grow if we're afraid to make mistakes.

I've met many succesful people on the internet. They all began from scratch and they've failed many times in life, but they didn't gave up (on their dream). They were passionate at what they've done even when they ran against different walls/obstacles. 
I'm following many Youtubers (entrepreneurs) right now. Everyone is remarkable. They are all putting their effort in their work even when they get hate comments. (they also get many compliments from their followers, indeed) ( ^_^ )

And I, on the other hand, have not experienced everything in life. And I'm not obliged to experience everything (and so are you), but I'm willing to help you to get back on the right track with what I have experienced until now. 

Just don't be afraid to make mistakes in life and jump into the unknown. Nobody's perfect. ;-)

Building up your selfconfidence is a muscle that you have to exercise and nourish it everyday... 

I have a dream.

I chase it.

I fall.

I learn.

I get better.

I keep marching on.

And so it goes.

- Brendon Burchard

Life Mission

Like everyone knows, life is not always kind to everyone. We get hurt, we fail, we begin to distrust, we get scared, we "fall"... etc. But the most important thing of all this, are: Stand up , learn from it and keep moving forward.

Everyone has different experiences in their life: poverty, discrimination, racism, divorce, the death of a loved one, violence, robbery, raping/sexual assaults, break ups, burn-out, bore-out, ... etc. Those are all kinds of experiences that everyone meets/have met in their lives. 

We "break" because we got (involved) in those situations. We didn't/don't know what to do when we got/get in those situations. But the most important questions that you have to ask yourself are: 

- What have I learned from those experiences?
- How can I make my life better?
- Do I want to become a stronger/better person?
- What do I want (in life)?

For the past few days, weeks, months and years; I've thought about my life mission, my purpose to stay alive after all those experiences. I got distracted, lost, scared and frustrated along the way to find my life mission. But I got stronger and wiser during the whole journey. I've also met different kinds of people along the way. Every person that you've met plays an important role in your life. They make a part of your life, but some of them may leave you behind and the other ones are going to stay with you forever. What you've also experienced becomes also a part of your life.

Embrace your life, respect other people and keep living to make your dreams come true. ( ^_^ )