Hi everyone! How have you been? ^_^ I'm doing well at the moment.
Have you ever fallen in love with someone or been in a relationship? Cause... I've never fallen in love with someone. How does it feel like to be in a relationship? Cause I'm kind of curious about it.
Or maybe, you haven't too? - Welcome to our league of Late-Bloomers! x'D
I'm unable to fully understand what a love relationship is like and when my friend wants to receive some advice from me; I'd tend to give her the most logical solution to it (after comforting her of course). I don't even know how love feels like... How can you be sure that you're in love with someone? This really puzzles me. x'D Even my younger brother is in his long-distance springtime.
I know that everyone's different, some of us need more time in order to discover themselves/open themselves up. And the others ones bloom(ed) sooner than us.
I'm 20 right now (I know, I'm still young) and most people whom I know have ever dated someone/had a relationship/are being in a relationship/are even married or engaged!! (Ö) It's even possible that I'll have my first love many years later or I'll spend the rest of my life as a lonely woman... Just kidding, I like the sound of the independent single woman more. :'))
On the other hand, I think I know why people don't dare to approach me... It's because I still keep my guard up. Even my sister said the same thing. She literally said to me that there are times that I'm unapproachable, even when we're a family. To me, being alert is NOT a bad thing, but giving off the feeling that you're aloof and cold is another story. I (You) won't be able to meet new people if this goes on. ^_^' So we need to pay more attention to our face expression (e.g. smile more!)
Good Luck!