Wednesday, 27 June 2018

Positivity

Hi everyone! How have you guys been lately? I'm doing very well at the moment.

Many things have happened in my life: good ones and bad ones. But that's okay, everything will be okay as long as I don't lose hope. 

Today, I'm going to talk about how to think more positively in life. As some of you may know, I've been dating lately. And it comes with ups and downs. There were different kinds of men; I wouldn't say that there were good or bad ones. Every men is different, but I have to say that many of them didn't suit me or I'm not the one they were looking for. 

There were times when I felt happy, angry and disappointed/sad. But I didn't let those situations discourage me. My mother was extremely worried that my condition would worsen if something were to happen to me. I wouldn't say that I'm scared, but I'm a little bit worried about the fact that my depression can get worser if I didn't protect myself emotionally. 

In order to protect myself emotionally, I would always think that each experience is a (life) lesson.  If I fall, I stand up. We are always learning until our death. It's really important to keep your mindset flexible. 

In this case, if we don't suit each other then we are not meant to be together and there's no reason to think that there's something wrong with ourselves. If you feel sad, then feel it. I don't have the right to tell you to not to be sad if you're feeling sad. But remember, don't drown yourself in your feelings. Letting your feelings flow is healthy, but becoming berserk because of it is another story.

No matter what happens, don't lose your smile and your ability to show compassion towards other people. 

Good luck!