Hi everyone! How have you been lately? I'm doing very well at the moment.
Today, I'm going to talk about meeting new people and giving them a chance. Right, you read it right! I'm going to give someone a chance to love me for who I am. I'm currently talking with two people in order to know what I'm looking for in a relationship. The reason why I decided to date is because I want to experience love. I want to move forward. Even if it's going to be difficult.
I know that there will be disappointments and heartbreaks, but that's ok. That's part of the process. All I have to do are: have faith and be patient. If we don't match, then it just means that we aren't meant to be together.
I know that all of these are rational thinking and that the experience might be different. Even my therapist is worried about me. She's worried that I don't have something to support me during those difficult times. But I assured her that if there's something, I have my mother, my friends and her beside me. And that I will go to them in order to express my feelings and thoughts.
I even made a list about my boundaries; things I don't wish/want to do on my first date. It's in order to protect myself and my inner child. (I don't have a baby, I'm talking about the mini me. I HAVE TO and WILL protect her from any harms.) 😂
In short, I want you to open yourself up on your own pace. You don't have to follow my pace and example if you don't want to. I'm not obliging anyone from doing it. But the most important thing is that you have to respect and love yourself first in order to be able to do that.
That's it folks! Good luck!! ❤️
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