Saturday 4 July 2015

Anxiety & Distrust

I was a very anxious person in the past. I didn't dare to speak up my mind and I was even very cautious about my own actions (just to avoid any rejections or critisism). I was a very distrustful person...  I didn't trust anyone except for those I have acknowledged as a very close friend. 

I was a very aloof person and I didn't participate in group conversations because I didn't know what to say or I was just too afraid to get people's attention... I get really uncomfortable when people are looking at me. But now, I'm a little bit different (I've gotten tired of being too afraid because I don't even know what other people are thinking about me). I dare to speak up my mind this year thanks to some people who gave me advice and their support. People will know what you're thinking or feeling when you show or say it yourself. ;-) When you open up to some people, they will do it also to you.

When you begin to open up to someone, it means that you begin to trust that person.

Something very important to know is that no matter what you do, say or how you look like... Many people are going to judge you. Everyone gets judged... Ignoring those people is difficult, but you won't be happy if you pay too much attention to it. Just do things that you enjoy (if it's not against the law ^^'). You still have people who accept you the way you are.

Lots of love, hugs, kisses and GOOD LUCK! ◊◊(^_^)◊◊

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